I bet you get into these dramas all the time, like with Jeff and me, where you cause all this trouble and u've no idea why. In my opinion you are doing it to distract yourself from becoming a person you're meant to be. -Which is who? You tell me. She might not look like what you pictured when you were age 16. Her job might not be cool. Her hair might not be flowing like a mermaid. And she might be really serious about something. Or someone. And she might be a lot happier than you are right now.»